Reminiscent of the JFC

You don't really stop loving the old, until you start loving the new.
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And if you don't stop loving the old, even after the new, then maybe you should never have let the old get away.
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I have never let go angry, but when I have let go, it's been as cleanly as I could have. Once I stopped loving them, I didn't give them a chance to keep loving me. Sometimes, that was the hardest part: to leave them floundering when you know you're the only one who could pull them safely to shore. If it were easy...
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If it's free and public knowledge, then you can find it on the internet. If you can't find it on the internet, then it's still a secret.